I knew it was coming. My stomach was acting weird and today, Jesus Christ, today. The morning was fine. We were very productive. Went to a garden center got some things we needed and a bunch of things we didn’t need. I have been digging up sod in several places because where I live, grass […]

April showers

Well technically, they were March showers. It doesn’t rain much where I live and really, it didn’t take much rain to cause trouble. When we bought our new house in November, there was water damage on the cathedral ceiling around the chimney and skylights. We were assured that they had been fixed with a new […]

Two many?

This post deals with secondary infertility. So the other day we met with a new at our RE’s office because ours had left. There had been a cancellation which was lucky for us as we were told it would be 3-6 months before we would be able to see a doctor. And no testing could […]

None of this is easy

Ugh. Nothing is ever easy or straightforward. Ever. That seems to be the theme of my life recently. From the smallest thing to major things. So we moved last November. We have done most of the major remodel to our house so things are slowing down. So that means I have more time on my […]


I have been meaning to write this post for awhile. Periods, they suck. A lot. My period was always just an annoyance. Something that happened every month like clockwork. Normal aches and pains. Nothing to write home about. After my IF diagnosis that changed. They were a reminder. A reminder that I was broken. Even […]

Hello friend…

It has been a very long time since I have posted. Work is finally slowing down on our house. Now it is just smaller projects, like removing wallpaper. You know easy stuff 😒 The neighborhood is very different. Less density and very quiet.  So we talked about trying to have another baby. This deadline looms […]

Houses, vomit and triggers

It has been awhile since I posted. We have been very busy. We’ve moved and are now trying to put our mark on our new home. We wanted a house we could fix and we certainly got one. The idea of a fixer upper has all of the optimism but none of the reality. We […]